What to Consider When Choosing a Guardian for Your Dependents

One of the main reasons young families prepare a will is to appoint a guardian for their minor children. This is one of the most important, and often most difficult, decisions you will make in your estate plan. A guardian is responsible for raising your children if you pass away before they reach adulthood, so the choice deserves careful thought.

Questions to Consider When Choosing a Guardian

1. Location: Where does the guardian live? Would your child need to relocate, and if so, would that move be in their best interest?
2. Financial stability: Does the guardian have the financial resources to take on the responsibility, even with support from your estate?
3. Family dynamics: Does the guardian have children of their own, and how would your children fit into that household?
4. Family or friends: Would you prefer that relatives care for your children, or might a close family friend be better suited?
5. Religious and personal values: Does the guardian share your values, beliefs, or approach to parenting?
6. Relationship with your child: Who does your child already know, trust, and feel comfortable with?
7. Time and energy: Does the guardian have the capacity to dedicate to raising your child?
8. Relationship status: If the guardian has a partner, do you want to appoint both spouses, or just one? If they were to separate, who would you prefer your child live with?

This list is not exhaustive, and every family’s circumstances are unique. It’s also important to appoint not only a primary guardian but also an alternate, in case your first choice is unwilling or unable to act.

Have the Conversation

Once you’ve identified a potential guardian, discuss the decision with them before finalizing your will. Make sure they understand the scope of the responsibility, especially if your children are young, as this could be a long-term commitment. Give them the opportunity to reflect before agreeing, since it is not uncommon for someone to decline the role when the time comes if they haven’t truly considered what it entails.

Final Thoughts

Choosing a guardian is one of the most protective and loving steps you can take for your children. By making this decision thoughtfully and documenting it in your will, you help ensure your children’s future care and stability.

At Sitka Law Group, we provide personalized advice on wills and estate planning. Our team will work with you to protect your loved ones and give you peace of mind.

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This article is current as of October 24, 2025, and it is intended for general information purposes only. It is not intended to provide legal advice and should not be considered legal advice. Readers with concerns about how this affects particular situations or transactions should obtain the independent review and advice of legal counsel.